I find adding workmates on fb THE MOST nerve wracking thing in the world. What if they don’t actually want to be fb friends with me? I mean, I’ve known them for over a year now, if they wanted to why haven’t they just added me? Maybe they don’t want to make the first move, in the same way I was hesitant? But what of these other work friendships? Do I just not look like fb friend material? WHY DON’T YOU LIKE ME??!!
Seriously though, once you’ve sent it they can’t really ignore even if they wanted to and then there’s this awkward tension that builds up for months after. You don’t notice it, but it’s there.
I think i’m just having one of those “need a friend” days.